How to Liberate Yourself from Social Anxiety | Vanessa Van Edwards on Impact Theory
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"Captivate" is more than just the title of her new book, it is the effect that Vanessa Van Edwards has on audiences through her videos, articles, and data-driven insights. Vanessa is a self-described recovering awkward person who went from hiding in the bathroom and avoiding people at parties to literally writing the book on deciphering human behavior. She founded her own research lab, the Science of People, and has traveled the world as a speaker presenting her findings to prestigious universities, Fortune 500 companies, and media outlets such as The Today Show, The Wall Street Journal, and much more. Learn from the certified fraud examiner, body language expert, and author as she shares practical insights for decoding human behavior in this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu.
PULL QUOTES
“I believe that every person has a cipher. They have a set of values that you can solve about them…if you turn it in the right ways.” [8:13]
“If we feel like we can change everything, we also might not optimize for how we are naturally wired.” [20:36]
“The biggest thing that happens with friendships is that they do go stale.” [25:32]
“We can unlearn our helplessness to learn to help ourselves.” [55:26]
“We don’t realize that happiness comes in these very small moments every day.” [55:57]
“Look at your struggle as immersive empathy.” [48:46]
SHOW NOTES
Vanessa explains what drew her to the science of solving people and why everyone has a cipher. [6:44]
Vanessa provides the keys to understanding yourself or someone else. [10:07]
Tom and Vanessa discuss the gravity of language, personality types, and neuroticism. [13:40]
Vanessa explains why self-soothing is important to balance. [19:00]
Vanessa explores the notion of radical honesty and deconstructs ambivalent relationships. [22:53]
Vanessa reveals the one question to ask that uncovers toxic relationships. [26:50]
Vanessa breaks down why she believes you can smell emotions. [30:58]
Tom and Vanessa discuss leveraging your uniqueness to communicate the right message. [33:54]
Vanessa talks about the personality matrix, radical honesty in relationships, and the resource theory. [39:39]
Vanessa reiterates the importance of self-soothing and emotional versus logistical worries. [49:30]
Tom and Vanessa touch on the link between happiness and learned helplessness. [53:43]
Vanessa shares how she turns small moments of unhappiness into gratitude totems. [57:30]
Vanessa defines the impact that she wants to have on the world. [59:28]
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
BOOKS/COURSES
Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People - http://amzn.to/2vbOxox [1:54]
Snoop: What Your Stuff Says About You - http://amzn.to/2f2QYUi [15:28]
The Power of Happiness Course - http://bit.ly/2gVfyqr [55:38]
PEOPLE
Sam Gosling - http://bit.ly/2gThqjy [15:25]
Martin Seligman - http://bit.ly/2vz8x27 [54:14]
FOLLOW VANESSA:
FACEBOOK: http://bit.ly/2tQoA9n
INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2uM1oxi
TWITTER: http://bit.ly/2uMmn34
LINKEDIN: http://bit.ly/2vwrbrj
WEBSITE: http://bit.ly/1mfaup9
YOUTUBE: http://bit.ly/2uLGzTb
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What If Everything You Know About Depression Was Wrong? | Op-Ed | NowThis
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Everything you know about depression could be wrong.
Johann Hari always wondered if there was more to people’s depression than what was being advertised/normalized. So, he started what turned into a 4,000 mile journey to find the answer. Like many, including celebrities, Hari felt confused when it came to handling his depression.
"When I was a teenager, until I went to my doctor, I had thought my depression was all in my head, meaning it was a sign of weakness, it was shameful,” he explained. “It’s not in our heads. If you’re depressed, if you’re anxious, you’re not crazy. You’re a human being with unmet needs.”
Hari began to explore what really causes depression in his book Lost Connections. As a child, he was told that his depression was due to a lack of serotonin in his brain. After he was given anti-depressants, he felt better, but found that the sad thoughts began to leak back in until he went back for a higher dose. He later discovered that our moods may be product of up to nine different factors, seven of which are in our psychology and our environment. These include feeling lonely, feeling controlled at work, and not getting enough access to the natural world.
He explained, “And while certainly chemical antidepressants have some value, and should remain on the table, we need to radically expand the menu of options for people who are depressed and anxious to actually deal with the deep, underlying reasons why we feel this way.”
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Francesca Stavrakopoulou: Characters in the bible didn't didn't exist
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The Most Dangerous Superstition by Larken Rose
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The Most Dangerous Superstition by Larken Rose (narrated by Steven Thomas)
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0:00:10 0) Dedication
0:00:29 1) Preparing the Reader
PART I: THE MOST DANGEROUS SUPERSTITION
0:03:11 2) Starting with the Punch Line
0:11:03 3) Overview
0:13:26 4) Identifying the Enemy
0:23:47 5) Government Does Not Exist (No Such Thing)
0:30:13 6) Offshoots of the Superstition
0:40:10 7) Attempting to Rationalize the Irrational
0:41:00 8) The Myth of Consent
0:49:46 9) More Mythology (new voice over)
0:59:12 10) The Secret Ingredient
1:05:12 11) The Excuse of Necessity
PART II: THE DISPROOFS OF AUTHORITY
1:06:34 12) Disproving the Myth (Letting Go of the Myth)
1:09:11 13) Why the Myth is Tempting
1:13:37 14) The Religion of “Government”
1:28:24 15) Adding Immoral Violence (“Authority” = Immoral Violence)
1:35:51 16) Who Gave Them the Right?
1:41:14 17) Altering Morality
1:50:17 18) The Unavoidability of Judging
PART III: THE EFFECTS OF THE SUPERSTITION
1:58:08 19) Effects of the Myth
PART III(A): THE EFFECTS OF THE MYTH ON THE MASTERS
2:08:20 20) The Devine Right of Politicians
PART III(B): THE EFFECTS OF THE MYTH ON THE ENFORCERS
2:20:19 21) Following Orders
2:26:56 22) The Milgram Experiments
2:40:52 23) Teaching Blind Obedience
2:49:35 24) Making Monsters
3:05:19 25) Demonizing the Victim
3:21:21 26) What the Badge Means
3:24:17 27) Noble Motives, Evil Actions
3:45:53 28) Proudly Committing Evil
PART III(C): THE EFFECTS OF THE MYTH ON THE TARGETS
3:49:30 29) Proud to be Robbed
3:54:20 30) Proud to be Controlled
4:00:59 31) The Good Funding the Evil
4:09:42 32) Digging Their Own Graves
4:19:20 33) The Effects on Actual Criminals
PART III(D): THE EFFECTS OF THE MYTH ON THE SPECTATORS
4:21:49 34) The Sin of Non-Resistance
4:24:34 35) Imagining "Legal" Evil to Be Good
4:35:27 36) Obligation to Do Wrong
4:46:19 37) Double Standard on Violence
4:54:41 38) The Danger of Inaction
PART III(E): THE EFFECTS OF THE MYTH ON THE ADVOCATES
4:57:15 39) "Legalized" Aggression
5:05:36 40) Excuses for Aggression
5:12:07 41) Charity Through Violence
5:15:33 42) Advocates of Brutality
5:22:42 43) Forced Benefits
5:25:01 44) Attacking to Defend (Violence for Protection)
5:27:34 45) Violence by Default (When in Doubt, Advocate Violence)
5:36:12 46) How the Myth Defeats Virtue
5:43:19 47) "Liberal" Cowardice
5:49:31 48) "Conservative" Cowardice
5:53:23 49) True Tolerance
6:00:29 50) Big or Small, Left or Right, It's Still Evil
6:12:43 51) No Objective Standard (???)
6:22:35 52) The Effect of the Myth on Freedom Advocates
6:34:32 53) The Rules of the Game
6:39:08 54) Legitimizing Oppression
6:43:19 55) The Libertarian Contradiction
6:52:33 56) Same as the Old Boss
6:55:53 57) A Mix of Wisdom and Insanity
7:01:32 58) The Contract Myth
PART IV: LIFE WITHOUT THE SUPERSTITION
7:04:20 59) The Solution
7:11:33 60) Reality is Anarchy
7:19:00 61) Fear of Freedom
7:23:51 62) Seeing a Different World
7:31:35 63) A World Without Rulers
7:43:43 64) Thinking Differently, Talking Differently
7:49:30 65) Teaching Morality vs. Teaching Authority
7:57:03 66) No Master Plan
8:09:13 67) You Rule you, I Rule Me
8:14:02 68) A Different Society
8:19:39 69) A Different Kind of Rules
8:27:13 70) Organization Without "Authority"
8:30:36 71) Defense Without "Authority"
8:50:52 72) Deterrents and Incentives
8:59:28 73) Anarchy in Action
9:05:22 74) Anti-Authoritarian Parenting
9:13:45 75) Halfway There
9:23:28 76) The Road to Justice
9:31:42 77) Side Effects of the Myth
9:48:40 78) What Society Could Be (What Might Have Been)
10:02:13 79) Accepting Reality
10:08:34 80) The Punch Line Revisited
10:12:56 81) Steven Thomas’s Contact Information
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